How It Works

Three circles. One chain. No noise.

Every movement that succeeded did so because it made ordinary people feel like protagonists, not spectators. Ask Me In moves outward, by hand, one chosen person at a time.

Three concentric circles representing community, the invited, and AustraliaCommunityAUSTRALIATHE INVITED
  1. 01

    The Jewish Community

    The originators. The inviters. The ones who hold the ribbons and choose who receives them.

  2. 02

    The Invited

    Non-Jewish Australians personally chosen by someone in Circle One. They receive a ribbon, they wear it, and they become inviters themselves.

  3. 03

    Australia

    The wider public who sees ribbons appearing in workplaces, schools, sporting clubs and cafés — and starts asking what they mean. They can't get one. They can only wait to be chosen. That tension is the engine of the movement.

The Digital Layer

The moment happens offline. Only the aftermath gets shared.

A photo of two people — giver and receiver — both holding the ribbon between them. Not wearing it yet. Holding it together.

"[Name] asked me in today. I said yes. #AskMeIn"

That's it. No explanation required. The simplicity is the point.

Hashtags

  • #AskMeIn

    The primary tag. Always used.

  • #BondiBlue

    The colour story. Place. Identity.

  • #OneRibbon

    Used when posting about choosing your person.